Learning to say good bye
Sometimes is too difficult to say goodbye. For some unknown reason, you just stick to someone, and you can´t let go...No matter how much it hurts, you just stick to them. No matter how they don´t care, you just stick to them, no matter how very much they laugh at your care, you just stay with them. I am not the kind of person who laughs at caring people, I sick for attention, and I love it when I get it. I very much appreciate my friends, and you know who you are (hehe)...I don´t understand people that laughs at you for caring about them...but I realize, that the reason why they do that scapes my understanding, and I see clearly now, that I shouldn´t care why, that is just how it is.I could say they are cruel, it would be easier to think that way, but they might not be. I could say they are dumb or evil, but they might not be. I could say they don´t have feelings, but they might have, just not towards me.
But I tell you, it is nice when you are released from the prison of being slave of your obsessions...feels good...let´s see how long it lasts. I will keep you updated.
Natalia
1 Comments:
I agree wholeheartedly -- it's very difficult to say goodbye.
When a friendship fails, I take it as a personal failure. Yes, the reasons for the end may have been out of my control, but I don't want to admit or accept that.
But not all relationships are beneficial. At some point, you need to decide whether that friendship is good for you, and helping you grow as a person (or helping them grow as a person), or unhealthy and dragging you down. If the friendship cannot be repaired, it's time to say goodbye. In the long run, it's the best thing for both of you.
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